Sunday, February 28, 2010

Apologizing

So hmmmm....yeah I'm BACK. Been gone for a minute but I'm back for good this time, just had to take care of a few situations... So this week's blog is about Apologizing, the proper way to do it and actually having a meaning behind it.

Basically "mums" the word when it comes to apologizing sometimes because we as humans naturally feel that we are ALWAYS right. No matter what the situation you can say 1+1=2, but someone will always try and make 1+1=3, but of course its just normal an innate characteristic that we all attain. So back to apologizing. If you apologize to someone you have wronged don't say "I'm apologizing to you cause I was wrong, but I'm still right"where they do that at? That is the WRONG way to apologize, if you are going to say something like that, you might as well not say it at all, especially if you stand strongly on what you did to someone or how you handled a certain situation. I'm a firm believer in standing up for something you believe in, if you don't feel that you were wrong then you shouldn't apologize, especially if you have FACTS to back up your beliefs. The Bible teaches us that we should ask God for forgiveness and our sins will be fogiven, but this must be done with a humble heart and we must confess our sins. So in other words just to say "I was wrong" is not enough. We must first admit our wrong behavior , then we should express sorrow (2 Corinthians 7:9-10). NO human on this earth is GOD, nor should they be treated like it, but we must still ask forgiveness from the ones we have offended.

Now me personally I don't take offense to much of anything that is put against me and I freely forgive everyone because it is the Christian thing to do (Colossians 3:13), but I do believe that if you are not giving a sincere apology you shouldn't, simple as that. Like I said I'm not easily offended so anything you say will just go in one ear and out the other, but clearly everyone's opinion is different on this subject. So I'm gone say this, IF YOU ARE GOING TO CHECK(talk about, jones, joke, etc....) SOMEONE, DON'T GET OFFENDED WHEN THEY CHECK YO ASS BACK. I know I have it bad about talking about people, but when people talk about me I'm not gone get offended cause 1) I probably deserved it and 2) I don't care. So if you check me don't get offended when I check back, but that's with anyone. We should all love each other, you should express hate towards no man. So this is my sincere apology. If I offended you in anyway, did anything to make you not like me or something of that nature: I APOLOGIZE. So with that said go away remembering this that GOD IS LOVE and I LOVE EVERYONE. But I will check you (and I expect you not to get offended cause its all fun), unless you tell me not to do it. I would be expecting you to check me back... Squad 424 check each other all the time, but no one gets sensitive cause I the end of the day we all got each others backs, the B'ville Crew is the same way, so with that said I'm outtie.

Thanks,

Management

1 comment:

  1. You know before I read this I felt like I was right about the situation between you and I. I failed to actually consider that maybe I was in fact wrong about the situation. And I was wrong. Really. I misinterpreted the situation coupled with me having my own issues going on and I took it out on you. I really and honestly apologize to you for that and for the things I said to you and not because someone told me to but because it is the right thing to do.
    -Kami

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